Tracee Ellis Ross began her Glamour’s 2017 Women of the Year speech by saying, “It’s really interesting to be a woman and to get to 45 and not be married and not have kids…You start hearing crazy shit like: “Oh, you just haven’t found the right guy yet,” “What are you going to DO?” “Oh, you poor thing,” “why is someone like you still single,” “have you ever thought of having kids?” “why don’t you just have a kid on your own.”