Kristen Bell has welcomed two children with husband Dax Shepard. In an email to ELLE in 2015, after the birth of her second child, the actress said of the baby weight conversation, “I find it to be a very stale topic.”

She urged new moms to “just be healthy” and not beat themselves up for not losing weight. “The only way pressure is lifted is if we choose not to accept it any longer. I think that’s what I did,” wrote Bell.

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